Monday, November 24, 2008

The Lure of Leather

If you've never worn leather lingerie before, or if it's something that you can't see any validity of wearing, then you might like to reconsider. Whilst your partner may be turned on by your usual sexy lingerie matching sets, even if you have the stockings and suspender belt to match, they won't even come close to what seeing you in leather will do him!

Risque leather lingerie isn't just about wowing him with how sexy you look; it's more about capturing all of his senses.

Take away his sight for a while - use a leather blindfold or silk scarf to block his view, this fabric will be a perfect foil for the leather. Let his hands feel the softness of the leather, and have him inhale its fragrance. There's something about leather that appeals to the senses, and smelling and touching it without being able to see it will have him wanting that blindfold off so his eyes can see what his other senses are telling him!

Perhaps you think that leather lingerie won't be comfortable because you've owned leather trousers in the past and didn't think they were easy to wear. What you have to keep in mind is that what you are buying here is lingerie. It's small pieces - very small if you're going to be wearing a leather g string or a sexy bra made from leather - of leather that are stitched together. It's very soft and supple. It won't be like wearing a leather jacket next to your bare skin. Although it won't feel as luxurious as satin or lace, it will have a sensuous feel that you could find you actually enjoy!

Latex and leather lingerie are great for role play when you are setting up an evening alone with your partner. Add to this some scented candles, a bottle of wine and some nibbles and you've got the fixings of an intimate date you'll both enjoy!

Once his senses figure out that you're wearing leather, you can still surprise him when the blindfold is removed by wearing something different to what he would anticipate. Most men will anticipate black leather, so why not consider white leather instead?

This wouldn't work if you wanted to assume a dominant role, but it does raise a few other possibilities for other scenarios! Sexy leather lingerie is also available in plus sizes too. One of the most sexy outfits for larger busted ladies is the plus size corset, together with a plus size thong. Order these in leather and you're going to have him crazy with anticipation! Don't forget the little extras - like a pair of fishnet stockings and some high heels to complete the fantasy picture! Enjoy being the sexy temptress and having him at your mercy!  

If you're not sure which sexy leather lingerie to buy, then look at one of the online stores that sells lingerie - you're sure to find exactly what you had in mind, or perhaps even something more scintillating than what you'd originally envisaged!  

Monday, November 17, 2008

Shopping Tips For Lingerie During the Winter

You can shop in a large department store, a small boutique or a specialty shop and find a large array of fabulous winter lingerie. You will find collections that are sexy or cute. It all depends what you ware looking for. You will probably find that you have more choices than you know what to with.

It is however, important to find the right lingerie in order to have the desired results. Lingerie is like wearing another skin and we all know that you need to be comfortable in your own skin. So while you should take a chance and be more creative and exotic ant times, try to say with in a certain comfort zone when shopping for lingerie.

Here are some other tips when shopping for lingerie -

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Don't limit yourself to only a lacy corset or a sexy bra. Consider thongs, corsets, girdles, and g-strings as well.

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Black is usually the color that comes to mind. But red is a big color for the winter. It is said that men find red "hot" as well as sexy. Shades of beige, white, pink, or violet can be lovely and quite sexy also and give a soft romantic look.

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Consider texture. While lace is lovely, there is nothing like red satin in the bedroom. Winter lingerie made of silk and lace is in this winter, as well as embroidery. Add a touch of fluff, Swarowski crystals, or satin ribbons, and you have quite a look. Knitted lingerie is also an option.

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If you are very large breasted, look for bras that have generous neck openings and push-ups.

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Choose the right size. Don't buy anything too big or too small. If it is too big, you will not look sexy and if it is too small, it will just accentuate the fat.

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Buy something that is flattering to your body shape. Buy a style that camouflages the worst of you and accents the best.

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For daytime wear, you can go for cotton and lace panties and bras. For a more sporty feel go with cottons. Boxer panties are in and prints and logos are very in.

So throw away that old nightwear and go and treat yourself to some new lingerie this winter. You'll soon find that there is no better way to warm up those cold nights with your man.

Monday, November 10, 2008

Bras Gone Bad - My Straps Keep Slipping

At first glance, you would think the average bra is a fairly simple piece of clothing to fit and wear. As we ladies know, this simply isn't the case. Getting the perfect fit is something akin to quantum physics. Problems like slipping straps seem to crop up all the time.

How do we deal with slipping bra straps? Well, the first step is to stop and make sure we understand how the bra is supposed to work. To understand, just picture a strapless bra in your mind. Since there are no straps, the support must be coming from somewhere else, right? The band running around the bottom of the bra should be providing the vast majority of support. This fact does not change simply because a bra has straps. If the straps on your bra are providing more than 10 to 20 percent of the support, you have things all wrong and should go see a bra consultant.

Since your straps are slipping off, we'll assume you have the bottom up support approach correct. Still, slipping straps are annoying and a bit unsightly when you have to keep reaching up to put them back up on your shoulder. The fix is usually not too difficult. We just need to figure out the cause.

The most common cause of strap slippage is rather obvious. Your cup size is too large for your body. This gives the cup room to bend forward and back where the strap connects to it. This has the practical effect of changing the bra size, which makes it impossible to get the straps just right. The fix for this problem is to switch to a bra with the appropriate cup size.

Another problem that has popped up in recent years is trend oriented. Ah, trends - the cure and cause of all our problems. Regardless, the trend we are discussing here are wide shoulder strap bras. These bras intentionally place the straps towards the edge of the shoulder to create more of a pushed up bra with deep cleavage look. The look is good, but many women don't have the shoulder shape to support the straps. If your shoulders are nearly horizontal across the top, then the bra is no problem. If they curve, however, the straps will tend to slide off when you lean, twist or do anything that creates a slight bit of slack.

The cure for this problem is to ditch this style of bra. I know it hurts to miss a good trend, but the pain is much less than the cumulative annoyance of having to deal with your bra straps every couple of minutes. Consider using a racerback bra to take care of the problem.

Monday, November 3, 2008

Naughty Lingerie For Bride-to-Be

Well you've got it all planned, the perfect wedding - but have you remembered the naughty lingerie? When shopping for wedding necessities you must make sure that you remember that however pure and innocent you want to look as you face your beloved and make your vows, you also want to know that beneath all that white satin and lace of a designer wedding dress is some extremely sexy white lace lingerie!

Every bride wants to look her best on her wedding day, but the greatest thrill of all is knowing that whilst everyone is saying how gorgeous you look, and your husband to be is telling you you've never looked more beautiful, it's only going to be a few hours before he's changing his mind when he sees the sexy wedding lingerie that you're wearing underneath! Remember that it's not just the wedding night lingerie that can be naughty either. It should all start from the beginning of the day. Wearing sexy bra and panties underneath your wedding dress is a good way to start your special day. You're going to have a secret smile throughout the entire day waiting for the moment you can show your groom exactly how hot his new wife is!

Sexy lingerie shopping for your wedding night should be fun. Think about how you can create a night that you and your new husband won't forget for all the right reasons! How about finding something very erotic such as an outfit in latex and sexy leather? Or if you're going to be traveling overseas on honeymoon and don't want to be caught with something as sexy as naughty lingerie by a zealous custom's official, why not go for simple but sexy lingerie sleepwear? In this situation you could also tantilize your new husband by hinting at the sexy sheer lingerie such as a sexy thong you're wearing beneath the clothes you're wearing on the journey! On your honeymoon don't forget some sexy evening wear, such as sexy micro bikinis.

Enjoy this time with your husband to deepen the intimate side of your relationship and show him how playful - and naughty - you can be by the selection of sexy women's lingerie that you wear. Try wearing a stylish dress to dinner, but let his hand caress your thigh as you whisper about the la paula leather lingerie you're wearing under it. Tell him that it's nice, but assure him that the real naughty bondage leather lingerie is waiting at home. Have him as eager to get you home as he is to have you to himself on honeymoon! If wedding planning is taking up all of your time and you don't really have the time to spend locating the right kind of ladies sexy lingerie that will show you as a playful seductress, then take an evening off the planning with take a glass of wine and your credit card in front of the computer. There are many places you can buy sexy lingerie online, and you'll be able to see the wide choices available and let your imagination and fantasies run free as you choose the best naughty lingerie with which to thrill your new husband.